I have met a lot of people with questionable integrity: like a jellyfish without a backbone,  or a bamboo that is pliant and moves to the direction where the wind blows.

They can just change their views in a flash : can be swayed  by anyone, to be  maintained in a  friendship and be kept in the dark.

I have seen some Filipinos who are in that category : will post their opinions and words, yet, do otherwise. Their actions are not in consonance with their words. Cannot be trusted, in short.

If the words do not match the actions, that is actually a signal for lack of integrity.

I am more careful now with those kinds of people.

I do not want to get hurt anymore.