The departure of the previous BOT of HAPI was a signal for “the law of natural selection. The pretenders, the social climbers, the gas lighters and the elitists are all we lost. We did not lose anything but pain, pride, egos and arrogance. We have gained in fact, the HAPI-IC stepped in and up. Resilience […]

Amazing! Why is it that every time I leave a society, I make more  haters? Know what? It is the same, like a mother leaving her teenagers behind: they rebel, they call me names and stuff. They are actually afraid of the unknown, cannot fathom how to lead people who are arrogant, self-entitled and narcissist […]

  I retired in October, 2015. Such a lovely job with 6-figure income. But, I am not greedy, I  have too much already. What will you do if you have too much already? RETIRE. No more waking up early, No more appointments to go to, No more treks to Manhattan via subway, No more dizziness […]

  Gratitude is the mother of success. But, alas, very few people know how to thank those who made the early movements of atheism and humanism possible. I say, remember the ten lepers? that  is all the same,  nine will leave and forget you, while only one will remember to thank you. No expectation is […]

I had a very lovely job : empowering patients about their disease and treatment choices, as an adult Nurse Practitioner of one of the biggest insurance companies in the world. It was a challenging and difficult job, yet, I  Iove  it very much. The remuneration package was top notch,  with 6-figure basic salary with bonuses […]

Just got back from a nice vacation to celebrate my retirement again. I have been asking myself why I am always victimized by sociopaths and pathological liars who have no personal dignity nor integrity like Aljohn de Leon and others. It must be that I am too kind..too blind,  to see that some people are […]

Happiness is contagious, a disease without a cure. It comes from within, you do not need anyone to make you happy. I will be happy and HAPI, just the right combination for my purpose in life. I do not plan just to exist. I want to live a life full of happiness and HAPI-ness. Besides, […]

Self-entitlement is rampant everywhere, but worse in the Philippine society.  Some Filipinos think that they are entitled to my money when I ask them to do things that they voluntarily do,  like activism and propagation of critical thinking. I must be naive to think that they do it for humanity’s sake. I did not know […]

Some people will remain bitter all  their lives: > those who have wrong perceptions and always misconstrue other people’s words, so that they can feel good about themselves. > those who have been banned by successful societies . > those who are not successful in their career. > those who are poor leaders, resigned fast […]