It is interesting, some people profess to be leaders. In the back, they are just clowns galore ready to imitate what we do. and great pretenders too. Even trying to cover up their member’s gold digging and slutty behaviors.. Oh well, clowns acting as leaders are funny indeed.
Read MoreAuthor: marissa
The Parasite Husband – the Great Pretender and Gaslighter
We finally found out that MM is a great pretender, not just a gaslighter. His wife even posted something on his wall, that he is just acting in pretense and is entirely different in real life. What did MM do? He deleted his wife’s post and blocked her.. WOW>. what a gall eh? blocking your […]
Read MoreFilAm magazine page 3, made me very HAPI
The new October edition of FilAm magazine is now out, and available. It is FREE of charge and you can pick up a copy in Philippine Embassy and any pinoy stores in NY/NJ, USA. This is an update of my interview in 2012, what has happened and why I have become happy and HAPI.. Another […]
Read MoreAdieu Carlos Celdran and THANK YOU!
I had fun memories with Carlos. I know of him since 2011, since that “Damaso ” incident. It was a long time ago, but his activism left me a great impression of him. He was introduced to me by Grace, via facebook. He became closer to me, I was always supporting his mini events in […]
Read MoreMy Second Interview By the Fil-Am Magazine (NYC, USA)
I thought, I am going to lay low. Sounds like it is not happening: My first interview was way back in 2012..Coming out atheist. https://thefilam.net/archives/7934 – had > 50 comments. Because it was something phenomenal.. : a pinay who is an atheist. . People became curious of me.. I had some invites for interviews from […]
Read MoreHow to increase self-confidence and self-esteem
In the USA, a person can self -promote oneself or blow one’s horn, especially when you are negotiating for a job or asking for a salary increase. It is never seen as something negative, unless, you act like Trump who has malignant narcissism. A healthy self esteem is necessary when you become a leader. Who […]
Read MoreWhistleblowing: Nursing homes in NYC
I was a consultant of about > 20 nursing homes in NYC, USA when I was still in practice. Too many to mention, but, one thing for sure, most if not all, are dirty, most nursing assistants are nothing to be desired. Let me start with the first nursing home that I worked in 1990. […]
Read MoreMy inspirations, et al. : Character and reputation
All of them inspired me, however, the person who has the biggest impact in my advocacy, died before I could meet him. He is Christopher Hitchens : “God is not great” changed me.. It opened my eyes, as to how religion poisoned everything good and made me militant. Modesty aside, my coming out, […]
Read MoreNefarious Duo : Marco Mendoza and Erik Tubil : ATTENTION!
There is a dummy account on FB, pretending to be pinoy. He has not even set foot in the Philippines, married to a pinay with 4 children living in California. He is also a mirror image of Trump : gaslighter, pathological liar, silent misogynist, with malignant narcissism and projects his insecurity to others. His name […]
Read MoreHAPI collabs and successes and MVP
We have been busy affiliating and building connections and bridges with other atheist/humanist societies in the Philippines and other international nonreligious societies. The more, the better, for there is strength in numbers and diversity, such a great joy for HAPI. With the Humanists International’s huge grant, we can now move freely and make more and […]
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